Shabbat Shalom December 27, 2013

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Shabbat Shalom December 27, 2013

Dear Friends and Family,

As we are vacationing in Florida with family, there is little time to devote to this week’s Shabbat message so I will let this poem speak my words for the last Shabbat Shalom of 2013.  I tried to find info on the author but came up empty handed.  Maybe one of you have heard of him or her. This message is my wish for 2014.

“May Light always surround you;
Hope Kindle and rebound you.
May your Hurts turn to Healing;
Your Heart embrace Feeling.
May Wounds become Wisdom;
Every Kindness a Prism.
May Laughter infect you;
Your Passion resurrect you.
May Goodness inspire
your Deepest Desire.
Through all that you Reach for,
May your arms Never Tire.”
D. Simone

Wishing you and your loved ones a Sweet and Peaceful Shabbat Shalom and a Happy Healthy 2014,

Lisa

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 Happy Birthday to this week’s celebrants:

Dec. 27th
Louis Pasteur (Scientist of germ theory)
Cokie Roberts (Journalist)

Dec. 28th
David Gad-Harf (Happy 60th)
Jordan Orley (Diane’s Dr. nephew)
Lori Sachs (Oakland County athlete)
Marty Liebman (Abba of Future Rabbi Miriam)
Sheri Schiff (Community Activist)
Michael Jonas (Brilliant Photographer)

Dec. 29th
Howard Cash (Ann Arbor Gene Genius)
Patti Aaron (Ann Arbor Health Activist)
Sharon Eisenshtadt (SHE)
Linda Samelson (Community Activist)

Dec. 30th
Judy Liebman (Ima of Future Rabbi Miriam)
Alicia Blas Macdonald (Stone Wood Ct.)

Lynn Greenberg Obron (Jeff’s better half)

Dec. 31st
Deana Lockman (Tamarack supporter)
Tammi Freedland (Fab Five Cranbrook Mom)
Hannan Lis (Soul Mate)

Jan. 1st
Jodie Krasnick (Mosaic Mission Member)

Jan. 2nd
Norman Kaplan (Diane’s Dad)

Shabbat Shalom December 27, 2013

Shabbat Shalom December 20, 2013

Snowy Western Wall Shabbat Shalom December 20, 2013

Dear Friends and Family,

Hatred
Hatred against Israel has invaded our US Academic Institution this week as the 5,000 member American Studies Association(ASA) voted to Boycott, Divest and Sanction Israel for her “abhorrent” treatment of Palestinians.  This BDS movement is rampant in Europe and Arab nations but was less prominent on our American soil…till now.  You’d think those in the field of academia would do their homework and fact check the history books regarding the Jewish/Arab relationship in the Middle East. In actuality, Jews have probably been the kindest to Palestinians compared to treatment by their own leaders and neighboring nations. Israel is not perfect as no country is and much progress is needed, but singling out Israel for BDS while countries like Syria, Egypt, Iran, Iraq and so many others continue to kill their own citizens is just ass backwards.  Footnote: Brandeis and Penn State Harrisburg have dropped their membership with ASA since this boycott.

More Hatred
Hatred was also spewed recently by the famed anti-semite, Roger Waters of Pink Floyd fame as he compared Israel’s actions to the Nazi regime and bellows about evil Rabbis. Here is an article that covers his whole rant: http://observer.com/2013/12/the-anti-semitic-stench-of-pink-floyd/

Saner Voices
“The Arab world has many enemies and Israel should have been at the bottom of the list.” This quote is by a brave retired Saudi navy commodore.  He recognized the 65-year mistake of the Arab nations to deny Israel’s existence. He poignantly suggests that if they had spent the mass fortune used for weaponry on education and health care instead, their countries would be lightyears ahead of where they are today. Take a peek at his article: http://www.arabnews.com/arab-spring-and-israeli-enemy

Hopeful Democracy
This week marks the 3rd anniversary of the first flame (literally) ofself-immolation (sacrificing oneself by burning in the name of a cause) in Tunisia that ignited the Middle East protests or Arab Spring. Hope is on the horizon for Tunisia as there seems to be a political compromise between the Islamist and the Secular Leaders. The western world will be closely watching and hoping for a democratic result.

Absurd Debate
Now, don’t be shocked by this next revelation, but Santa Claus is White.  If you haven’t seen the witty repartee by Jon Stewart in response to Fox’s Megyn Kelly’s debate about the ethnicity of Santa Claus, it is well worth a glimpse.  This clip is 9 minutes but you can skip to the 3 minute mark to start the fun: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oN8c4L6RsSY  And farewell to John Oliver as he departs the Daily Show for his new home at HBO.

This also serves as a subliminal message about the
Forgotten Harvest event April 26th featuring Tim Allen (seen here as Santa Claus)

Inductee
My teen walls were plastered with Cat Stevens posters as his music was constantly playing on my turntable.  And very soon he will join the ranks of Kiss, Hall & Oats and Linda Ronstadt as fellow Rock and Roll 2014 inductees.  Tea for the Tillerman, Teaser and the Firecat and his early album Matthew and Sons will forever be my favorites. The message of this song is to speak up about what you believe: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uOOPPO91t2Q  And how about that great soundtrack to Harold and Maude: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=if504e1EHJg

Pride
Mazel Tov to Grand Rapids and Michigan Gold Coast on their #1 spot on the Lonely Planets Top 10 guide of places to visit in 2014: http://www.lonelyplanet.com/usa/travel-tips-and-articles/top-10-us-travel-destinations-for-2014

 

Wishing you and your loved ones a Sweet and Peaceful Shabbat Shalom,

Lisa

P.S. Kudos
– 33 States to go as New Mexico became the 17th State to jump on the Marriage Equality Bandwagon.
– Putin pardons Pussy Riot “Hooligans” and 30 Greenpeace activists.

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Corrections from Last Week:
-There are only Three Jewish Supreme Court Justices (not four).
-Federation THANX event is Tuesday (7pm) Jan. 14th (not 13th). Please sign up and join my table
http://jewishdetroit.org/event/sabra-the-thanx-event/

Disgraceful Legislation
Please join the fight against our recent Michigan legislation which eliminated abortion coverage from insurance policies:
https://www.aclu.org/secure/join-fight-against-rape-insurance?etname=MI_ACTION_11222013&etjid=1191021

Michigan goodies for Soldiers
If you’d like to send Michigan goodies to a Michigan soldier serving overseas, please click here:
http://www.downwithdetroit.com/GiftBaskets.html

Mittens for Detroit
As our extremities start to freeze in our frigid Michigan Winter, lets help those who don’t have cozy mittens to warm their fingers. Please support Mittens for Detroit by attending their big fundraiser Jan. 25th at MGM Grand in Detroit for the 4th Annual “A Night of Giggles & Gloves” Comedy Show & Silent Auction. You can support their efforts here: http://mittensfordetroit.org/

New MI Science Center
Bravo to our Michigan Science Center (in Detroit) as it celebrates its 1 year re-opening with free admission on Thursday Dec. 26th (9am-5pm).  http://www.mi-sci.org/

Ryan Fishman for State Senate
Please help us support Ryan Fishman to become the State Senator representing Berkley, Birmingham, Bloomfield Hills, Clawson, Rochester, Rochester Hills, Royal Oak and Troy.  He will be a great State Senator and your help with his campaign is greatly appreciated.
http://www.ryanfishman.com/home

 

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 Mazel Tov to this week’s celebrants:

Dec. 20th
Barbara and Larry Haber
(Happy 50th anniversary)
Michael HarPaz
 (Talented Michigander in Israel)

Dec. 21st
Hannah Moiseev
(Pride of Marla and Andy)
Gina Horwitz
(Mom to Israeli soldier Stephanie)
Helen Katz
(newly enjoying retirement)
Rachel Robinson
(Fed. Team Member)

Dec. 22nd
Ladybird Johnson
(First Lady)

Dec. 23rd
Joseph Smith, Jr.
(Mormon Church founder)

Dec. 24th
Nancy Glen
(Ralph’s better half)

Dec. 25th
Steve Fisher
(Gail chose wisely)

Dec. 26th
David Sedaris
(Humorist)

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 Merry Christmas to friends who will be celebrating this week.

Bonus Video. I really think you’ll enjoy this awesome, creative, music video of the winter streets of Detroit:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=u1izm_kP1WI

Shabbat Shalom December 20, 2013

Shabbat Shalom December 13, 2013

Shabbat Shalom December 13, 2013

Dear Friends and Family,

White House
I usually start writing these emails on Monday and complete the final version Thursday evening (or before, depending on my schedule). Last week’s message was sent to the system before the news broke of Nelson Mandela’s passing (tribute below). Hannan and I were at the White House Hanukah Party Thursday evening as President Obama included praise to Mandela in his Hanukah Greeting: www.youtube.com/watch?v=6a-diFAOLuU  Also at the party was Larry David, who (as you can see by his expression) passed on my request for him to be this week’s Shabbat Shalom greeter.

Though Israeli basketball star, Omri Caspi, who plays for the Houston Rockets was happy to offer you a Shabbat greeting.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xxeqbFRdKGA&feature=youtu.be

In the line to enter, we met famed food critic/cookbook author Joan Nathan and her daughter and even-though I don’t cook, I knew who she was.  Others notables at the party were all four Jewish Supreme Court Justices.  We also saw Texan friend, Marc Stanley (see birthdays below) who is Chairman of the National Jewish Democratic Council. We were honored and grateful to be invited to this year’s party.

Nelson
As our global community mourns the passing of Nelson Mandela and he is laid to rest on Sunday, there are so many regional wars that should take note of his method to conflict resolution.  In his early days, he too resorted to violence but he became enlighten that non-violence is a more effective (and humane) route.  After 27 years in prison, he had a partner to peace with then South African

President F.W. de Klerk who released him and later joined forces to peacefully unite their beloved country.  May Mandela’s passing inspire the regions of conflict especially the Middle East to follow his lead and bring peace to their people.  Also, may future Tribute Organizers carefully screen their Sign Language Interpreters.

Mandela in Motown
Four months after his prison release in 1990, Detroit was fortunate to receive a visit from him when he met Rosa Parks and paid tribute to Joe Louis, Marvin Gaye and Motown.  He spoke at Tiger Stadium to a pack audience who cheered every word:

Mandela fights AIDS
AIDS was destroying South Africa during Mandela’s tenure however he failed to act and even denied its seriousness at the time. But he changed his tune in the first few years of the 21st century when he announced his son’s death to the disease and henceforth became a stalwart activist and supporter of the AIDS fight.

Back to DC
As mentioned last week, Hannan and I were back to Washington DC this week for the American Joint Distribution Committee Centennial Celebration, where we were addressed by Sec. of State, John Kerry and VP. Joe Biden.  “The Joint” as it is lovingly referred to by the millions it helped throughout the last century is a Humanitarian Agency focusing on rescue and relief for both  our Jewish and greater global community.  Hannan is a proud board member. http://www.jdc.org/

Joel in NYC
I have another great activity for my NYC priority list (hoping to get there soon).  The amazingly talented Bronx bred singer/songwriter, Billy Joel, has committed to performing MONTHY at Madison Square Garden with his wide array of tunes and only ending this commitment when fans no longer fill the seats (which could take decades). This talented (tribesman) first played MSG in 1978 and the Piano Man is still going strong four decades later.  He’ll celebrate his 65th birthday at MSG on May 9th.  I’d love to see that show. Also, he is due a Mazel Tov for receiving one of the Kennedy Center Honors last weekend. http://tinyurl.com/Billy-Joel-MSG

Disgraceful Actions
I’m embarrassed by our Michigan Legislators this week who have taken a huge leap backwards regarding Health Care for Women with their bill banning Insurance Coverage for abortions even in cases of sexual assault. This is flat out disgraceful.
More Politics
To avoid another government shutdown (which nobody wants), the House crafted a bi-partisan budget plan that will go to the Senate next week. Though conservative Paul Ryan was an author and even John Boehner supports it, there are still some extreme conservatives and Tea Partiers who opposed the bill (before they even read it). We must beware as these extreme elements plan to invade our Senatorial Race (see below).
Gun Control
On this one year anniversary of Sandy Hook, may the strength of the victim’s families inspire our legislators to instill sanity within our gun regulations and help prevent future massacres.

Wishing you and your loved ones a Sweet and Peaceful Shabbat Shalom for those inclined, an easy Fast of the 10th of Tevet commemorating the destruction of our First Temple,

Lisa

P.S.  As a 1982 MSU Grad. I must congratulate our Spartans on their journey to the Rose Bowl.

P.P.S.  Jerusalem was frozen this week to a rare Snowstorm.

 

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My current top priorities these days are the Senate Race, our Jewish Community and Hunger.

Please help support Gary Peters in his effort to continue the admirable work of current Senator Carl Levin.  Extreme Conservative (like Carl Rove) will be descending upon our State to fight against Gary’s efforts to represent us in the US Senate.  We must rally the troops and stand up to this invasion.  Please help:
http://www.petersformichigan.com/

Please join my table at our Federation’s Sabra Thanx event (for donors of $365 or above) to hear SPANX CEO, Laurie Ann Goldman on Tuesday Jan. 13th at 7pm at Shaarey Zedek.  For more info: http://jewishdetroit.org/event/sabra-the-thanx-event/

Please help us combat hunger by saving the date of April 26th for our Forgotten Harvest Comedy Night featuring homegrown Tim Allen.  To learn more about the amazing work of FH, check out their website: http://www.forgottenharvest.org/

 Happy Birthday!

Nov. 27th
appy Half Birthday to Marc Stanley
Missed his full birthday of May 27th

Dec. 13th
Elise Schostak (David’s better half)
Liz Guz (Tennis buddy)

Dec. 14th
Marc Shaye (Franklin fan)

Dec. 15th
Dana Siegel (youngest of 3 sisters)

Dec. 16th
Ludwig Van Beethoven

Dec. 17th
Elissa Miller (Rabbi Jason’s wife)
Natalie Newman (mom of IDF soldier Josh)

Dec. 18th
Jeff Mark (one of my 3 favorite brothers)
Simcha Tolwin (Happy 40th)

Dec. 19th
Carl Dorn (Renee and Kevin’s dad)

Mazel Tov to Dr. Terri Orbuch on her new PBS show (Channel 56, airing this week) called “Secrets from the Love Doctor”.

Shabbat Shalom December 13, 2013

Shabbat Shalom December 6, 2013

Shabbat Shalom December 6, 2013

Dear Friends and Family,

Big Local News
A Fresh Start is how the judges’s approval of Detroit’s Bankruptcy was perceived by many in our State, though many others (mostly pensioners) are worried about their future income. Everyone will need to sacrifice to ensure a brighter (literally on the night streets) future for our beloved City.  The appeals have already stated so this process will blaze be a long, but hopefully, fruitful trail.  Detroit’s woes have been spotlighted all over the global media but this week Jimmy Kimmel highlighted our homegrown talent.  Check out this youtube of last week’s Piston’s dance-off and their appearance on Jimmy’s show: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wuDc3rAEbcU

Speedy Year
How did December and the end of 2013 creep up so fast? What is the secret to slowing down our savory times and speeding up our sad one. Whether savory or sad, they all seem to pass so quickly.  Being busy speeds them along but busy days sure beats boredom. Last week was busy with non-stop family celebrations savoring all four of our children (plus a son-in-law, a granddaughter, a boyfriend and Hannan’s High School buddy) all slumbering at our home.

Shorter Version
These next two weeks are extra busy with 2 separate trips to DC (one for the WH Hanukah party and one for the Centennial Celebration of the Joint Distribution Committee) so next week’s Shabbat emails might be a bit condensed.

Israeli Hero
For the 3rd year in a row, Israeli Ambassador to the UN, (the brilliant and articulate) Ron Prosor, addressed the UN’s bias against Israel.  His speech is so powerful, meaningful and educational, that I wish it could be beamed directly into every Israel detractors brain.  I highly recommend taking the time to read and forward this masterpiece.  I just wish his words could truly bring Peace to the Middle East.
http://www.algemeiner.com/2013/11/28/full-transcript-ambassador-prosor-highlights-anti-israel-bias-at-the-un/

Global Heros
Dec. 1, 1955 was the day Rosa Parks refused to relinquish her seat to a white man which flamed the sparks of our Civil Rights movement elevating her to national hero status.  For 6 years now, CNN has been highlighting global heros of our era as this past Sunday (Rosa Parks Day), they honored another 10 “Saints”. A sample of their missions are:
-Cleaning Up Our US Rivers
-Protecting African Girls from Circumcision and Empowering them with Education
-Bringing Urban Gardens and Fresh Food to our Poorest Neighborhood.

Each hero is given $50,000 to continue their non-profit work as well as the exposure of millions of viewer to their mission.  Its a brilliant and priceless gift by CNN.  To learn more about this amazing program, please check out this website:
http://www.cnn.com/SPECIALS/cnn.heroes/archive12/index.html

ReThink Israel
Another great new non-profit is ReThink Israel.  Its chock-full of interesting Israeli facts, programs and innovative initiative. Check it out at http://rethinkisrael.org/ or like it on Facebook at https://www.facebook.com/ReThinkIsrael

Wishing you and your loved ones a Sweet and Peaceful Shabbat Shalom,

Lisa

Bonus Video:  Yes, I am a bit Michigan-centric in these emails as I’m proud and honored to be a Michigander. There is much pride in our State. Here is an awesome poem that reflects that pride:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ntw9kMdyInI#t=51

And while we’re in the Michigan mood, check out this Attraction List and score yourself.  http://www.listchallenges.com/michigan-tourist-attractions?ref=share

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My current top priorities:

Please help elect Gary Peters as our next US Senator by supporting his campaign. Hope to see you at the fundraiser Sunday Dec. 15th (2-4pm) at the home of Roz and Stanford Blanck. Please contact Elisa Malile for event details and to RSVP at 313-318-5421 or event@petersformichigan.com

Please join my table at Federation’s Sabra event (for donors of $365 or above) to hear SPANX CEO, Laurie Ann Goldman
on Tuesday Jan. 14th at 7pm at Shaarey Zedek. For more info:
http://jewishdetroit.org/event/sabra-the-thanx-event/

Please help combat hunger by saving the date of
April 26th for the Forgotten Harvest Comedy Night featuring Tim Allen.  Please let me know if you are interested in Corporate or Individual sponsorships.  There is a wide and reasonably range of options.
Happy Birthday to this coming week’s celebrants:

Dec. 6th
Wendy Kirsch (Camp Sea-Gull friend)
Nick Lalla (Ariella’s Northwester Friend)

Dec. 7th
Fran Victor  (Bill’s better half)

Dec. 8th
Dec. 9th
Ronda Ferber (Mom to 5)
Avi Brandvain (Beth’s Israeli half)

Dec. 10th
Neal Elyakin (Shabbat Crew Original)
Penny Blumenstein (JCD Leader)
Susan Slabotsky (Great Grant Writer)
Roz Blanck (Federation partner)

Dec. 11th
Dale Rubin (Federation supporter)

Dec. 12th
Carol Tarnowsky (High School Friend)
Lauren Kepes (Lucy’s sister)
Shabbat Shalom December 6, 2013

Arik Einstein Video Correction

Arik Einstein
Shabbat Shalom November 29, 2013

Dear Friends and Family,

I mistakenly inserted the incorrect video for Arik Einstein and as he was so beloved by so many in his home county, he deserves a correction.  Please enjoy the video I meant to include as well as an additional one:

Ani Ve Ata ( You and I Can Change the World)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ETqJxlBrQbc

San Francisco on the Water
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-w8v1V-wGUM

Sorry for the error,

Lisa

Arik Einstein Video Correction

Shabbat Shalom November 29, 2013

Shabbat and Hanukah Shalom November 29, 2013
Dear Friends and Family,

As the holidays of Thanksgiving (Gratitude) and Hanukah (Miracles) converged this week, here is some food for thought on both topics.

Gratitude
Last night was Thanksgiving so some of you might be recovering from massive consumption of traditional holiday dinners.

Our lives are grateful gifts and God willing we all live to be nearly 90 year old which is roughly 30,000 days. For perspective, our granddaughter, Hadassa, has experienced 26 days (mostly eating, sleeping and pooping).  How will you fill your allotted days aside from the necessary tasks of eating, sleeping and pooping?Here is a Mae West quote we should all strive to live by.  “You only live once, but it you do it right, once is enough”.  And here is a video demonstrating our limited and grateful days on this Earth:  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BOksW_NabEk

Miracles
“There are two ways to live: you can live as if nothing is a miracle; you can live as if everything is a miracle.” Albert Einstein. I strive to live as if everyday is a miracle.  Here is a sweet Hanukah song spotlighting several miracles from the ordinary to the supreme.  I hope you enjoy:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_h03yne66y8

Gratitude and Miracles of Music

Condolences to Israeli music lovers of the Great Singer/Songwriter Erik Einstein on his sudden and unexpected death this week at the age of 74 from an aortic aneurysm.  Erik was a very popular musicians who rose to fame in the 60s with his troubadour style music as a link between the traditional Israeli folk music and Rock & Roll.  Here is one of his most famous songs in a vintage video from his early days. This song is called Ani Ve Ata and it just so happens to be the first song Hannan sang as a teenager (in Israel) at a talent show.  It is a beautiful song which talks about howYou and I Can Change the World. Enjoy:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_h03yne66y8

Erik Einstein 1939-2013

Beautiful Music
Leading the pack of my NYC broadway priority list is Beautiful, The Carole King Musical.  I’m itching to return to the Big Apple to see that new musical and a few more.  In the meantime, here is a really cool interactive website that allows you to click, learn and listen to some of her brilliant compositions.
http://beautifulonbroadway.com/Carole-Songs/?utm_source=twitter&utm_medium=cpc&utm_campaign=beautiful

My first album (1971)

Iran’s Quest
Between all the rhetoric and pessimism (of media Talking Heads), the bottom line is that Iran basically agreed to halt their nuclear (weapons) enrichment and allow international inspectors into their country in exchange for access to a fraction of funds owed to them. This is a simplistic explanation for a temporary (6 month) agreement with a rogue country who hates Israel (among others), but it could be better than the current situation where even crippling sanctions doesn’t seem to guarantee a safer Middle East.  The next steps are crucial to determine a permanent agreement to unequivocally end any nuclear weapons capability for Iran. Time is the only true source of assessment for this arrangement. If this plan doesn’t work, it seems evident that, one way or another, Iran will NEVER obtain nuclear weapons, unless there is a major regime change.

Frustrating System 

Until the system changes, we are resigned to help political candidates fundraise for their races.  I must say, I HATE the excessive amounts of money coming from all of our pockets including the unlimited cooperate donations (due the SCOTUS Citizens United decision).  There should be a level playing field with a fixed campaign amount for each candidate to use rather then interest groups lobbying with dollars and possibly affecting policy. Why am I ranting about this…because our Local, State, Regional and Federal Judges are SUPPOSE to stay OUT of the political fundraising field, however our Supreme Court Justice Clarence Thomas jumped right in as he headlined at a fundraiser for the Federalist Society, clearly a violation of his Code of Conduct.  To learn more about this and to sign a petition urging action, please view this site:
http://tinyurl.com/JudgeCThomasConduct

Gratuitous NY Times Cover
Wednesday’s NY Times (Top Front Page) displayed a large photo of a nearly bare-chested women with a scar and a Jewish Star Tattoo.  The story was about screening, treating and bringing awareness of the the BRCA gene mutation which causes Breast and Ovarian Cancer. Yes, Breast Cancer (and BRCA) is prevalent in the Ashkenazi Jewish Community which is a large part of the Israeli population and exposing the need to test for the mutation is important, but was it necessary to use that photo on the cover of the paper.  Here’s the photo. What’s your opinion?
http://www.nytimes.com/images/2013/11/27/nytfrontpage/scan.pdf

Wishing you and your loved ones a Sweet and Peaceful Shabbat Shalom and a Hag Hanukah Sameach (Happy Hanukah),

Lisa

Bonus holiday video.  Please enjoy this holiday mash up song (original tune of Don McClean).  It’s creative, quirky and worth a peek. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QXsxCohQNT8

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 Happy Birthdays !!

Nov. 23rd
Debbie Dingell (missed last week)

Nov. 27th

Dorothy Benyas (missed last week)

Nov. 29th

John Mayall
(British Blues Musician and Josh F. fan)

Nov. 30th
Andi Wolfe (Mom-in-law to Forrest)

Harris Van Cleef (best event planner)

Dec. 1st
Gary Peters (Best Rep and future Senator)
Jennifer Berg (Twins mom)
Sherri Ketai (Israel loves her & visa versa)

Dec. 2nd
Liza Appleton/Zuckerman (bow wow)

Dec. 3rd
David Altman (Happy BIG 50th)

Dec. 4th
Forrest Wolfe (daughter-in-law to Andi)

Dec. 5th
Julie Weisberg Schlafer
(Aspen Baker)

Shabbat Shalom November 29, 2013

Shabbat Shalom November 22, 2013

Shabbat Shalom November 22, 2013

Dear Friends and Family,

Relief Requested
Mother Nature was wrathful last weekend as 80 tornadoes decimated neighborhoods, towns and cities throughout the Midwest. May the victims of these devastating storms receive rapid relief and repair to their damaged lives.

Re-dedication
150 years ago this week, President Abraham Lincoln recited the (the very brief) Gettysburg Address to dedicate the cemetery to the heros of our Civil War.  Here are his words spoken today through our current president, past presidents and various celebrities: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SQ0HhhpsucQ  and you will NOT believe your ears as a 2 year old recites those same words in this youtube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OcQMndRhNiE

Re-think our Laws
Michigan is one of 25 State that have “Stand your Ground” or “Extended Self Defense” laws allowing the use of deadly force to protect yourself INSTEAD of requiring you to retreat or run away, if possible. Sadly, another innocent victim lost her life to gun violence that most likely will be defended under our Michigan’s extended Self Defense law.  The story has already reached national and international attention and again will cause racial strife as the victim was a 19 year old African American women and the defendant is a white man. Why do we need a law protecting and encouraging someone to use deadly force when an escape route is possible.  With no escape route, of course you should be able to protect yourself and your family with any means necessary.  Self defense is already a legally protected defense under the law. Why make it legally easier for someone to use their weapon which often leads to the loss of innocent (wrong place/wrong time) lives.  As a footnote (for saner Gun Control laws), George Zimmerman was charged with assault this week for pointing a shot gun at his girlfriend during an argument. Should George have the legal right to even own a shot gun with his history.

Release Request
Another innocent life was lost last week in northern Israel.  18 year old Eden Atias from Nazareth Illit (a city in our Jewish Metro. Detroit partnership region) was stabbed to death while napping on a bus.  The terrorist/killer was a 16 year old Palestinian boy from Jenin.  Sadly, these attacks are sometimes incited by the Palestinian Authority (PA) via radio, television and printed material that offers rewards for attacks against Jews and support (money) to their families while they are in jail as well as negotiation pressure on the Israelis for release.

Eden Atias 1996-2013
Re-Evaluate Options
Just because you CAN doesn’t mean you SHOULD.  This statement refers to many situations, like if you are financial affluent you don’t need to be financially ostentatious. A moral situation in this vain, is the Death Penalty.  Just because our laws allow our penal system to kill, doesn’t mean we must…Yes, some criminals deserve to die and yes, it probably cost more to keep them alive in prison, but (morally) should States take an active role in killing people. Israel does NOT have the Death Penalty (with one exception, Adolph Eichmann).  Even terrorist in Israeli jails are not executed by the government with very difficult consequences (see story above).  32 States in our county still allows the Death Penalty. The attacker of Larry Flint is due to be executed this week and even Larry Flint is speaking out against it. Some States are trending to abolish Capital Punishment but other States like Texas just executed it’s 15th prisoner in 2013.
Re-think Blame
Of course immediate and PR blame by the Iranians this week was thrust upon Israel for the Iranian Embassy bombing in Beirut, Lebanon.  Two suicide bombers (expecting 72 virgins in heaven) blew themselves up and took 23 lives with them in protest of the Iranian backed Hizbollah support of Syrian’s Pres. Bashar Al-Asad.  Not too hard to follow other than Israel’s complete lack of connection to this trio of evil.

Retro vs. Modern

For my friends of “Classic” Mr. Spock and “Modern” Mr. Spock, please enjoy this unique contest, disguised as an Audi commercial.  It’s only 2 1/2 minutes but worth watching till the end:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WPkByAkAdZs

Rejoice
For my friends of basketball and the holiday season, please enjoy this unique “Jingle”
http://mashable.com/2013/11/14/nba-jingle-bells/

Wishing you a joyous trifecta celebration with next weekend’s triple holidays of Shabbat, Hanukah and Thanksgiving,

(Savta) Lisa

P.S. (Post Script)
Mazel Tov to Natan Elyakin on receiving his Black Belt in Karate last weekend.
Mazel Tov to Huntington Woods, MI for making the top 10 list of best suburbs of the United States according to the Wall St. Journal Market Watch. HW friends, who’s house is in this photo?:  http://tinyurl.com/Hunt-Woods-Homes
Mazle Tov to 16 Medal of Freedom recipients awarded by Pres. Obama this week during the 50th anniversary of this ceremony. Among the 16 winners were Pres. Bill Clinton, Oprah Winfrey, Loretta Lynn, Gloria Steinem, Sally Ride and Ernie Banks. 
Pres. JFK initiated this award just before his assassination and the first winners receive their honors two weeks after his death.

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Wishing the Detroit Police department success in finding and stopping the arsonists who are burning down the artistic houses of the Heidelberg Project.

Condolences to Michael & Marcy Feldman and Betsy & Jeff Heuer on the passing of their beloved relative Harold Berry.  May his memory bring comfort to those who are mourning his loss.

Condolences to Brian and Liz Guz and their family on the passing of Brian’s mother, Judy Guz.  Brian read this meaningful and poiyant story at the funeral about human nature.

A Fish Story

When a trout rising to a fly gets hooked and finds himself unable to swim about freely, he begins a fight which results in struggles and splashes and sometimes an escape.

In the same way, the human struggles with the hooks that catch him.  Sometimes he masters his difficulties; sometimes they are too much for him.

The struggles are all that the world sees, and it usually misunderstands them.  It is hard for a free fish to understand what is happening to a hooked one.
Karl A Menniger (1893-1990)
“The Human Mind”

birthday

 Happy Birthday to this coming week’s celebrants:

Nov. 22nd
Caryn Satovsky Siegel

Nov. 23rd
Marc Schechter

Nov. 24th
Gail Rosenbloom Kaplan

Nov. 25th
Barbara Madgy Cohn

Nov. 26th
Tina Turner

Nov. 27th
Howard Tapper
Laura Champagne
Stacy Kay Doctoroff

Nov. 28th
Jon Stewart

Shabbat Shalom November 22, 2013

Shabbat Shalom November 15, 2013

Shabbat Shalom November 15, 2013

Dear Friends and Family,

Strong Name
Hadassa Vered Raviv is our granddaughter’s name.  She follows in the footsteps of her strong and beloved paternal Great Grandmothers who’s names she will carry on. Hadassa was the Hebrew name of Esther (from our Purim Story).  Esther was Hannan’s mother’s name. Vered mean’s Rose in Hebrew which was Tzvi’s Great Grandmother’s nickname. She was born into a Loving, Crazy, Zionistic, Musical, Political, Warm and Large Family who are blessed by her arrival.  May she grow with health and happiness throughout her life.


Fierce Storm 
As we were celebrating our Simcha,  the other side of the world was experiencing devastation and destruction as, the deadliest storm ever, Typhoon Haiyan reeked havoc on the people of the Philippines. The death toll continues to rise as they estimate the final count will be nearly 10,000.  The storm continued on its path through Vietnam and China with less intensity but still powerful.  As usual, Israeli help was dispatched immediately as two jumbo jets filled with hundreds of medical professionals arrived with a modern mobile hospital similar to their efforts in Haiti.  May the people of the Philippines find quick relief to their suffering and essential support for their recovery. If you’d like to help, please click here: https://secure-fedweb.jewishfederations.org/page/contribute/phillipines


 

 

 

 

 

Tough Negotiations
Iran is playing hard ball as world leaders try to halt their nuclear ambitions.  Their new president has, at least, opened the door to discussions which wasn’t even an option with the last lunatic. But how sincere are the Iranian leaders willing to cooperate in exchange for lifting sanctions that would ease the financial pressure on the county.  World politics is a gambling game with real lives at stake.

Stoic Ambassador
50 years ago this month, a stoic little girl put on a brave face for the world to see while she witnessed the funeral procession of her beloved father. This week, Caroline Kennedy was sworn in as our newest Ambassador to Japan and makes history as the first woman to hold that position.  Here is a photo of John Kerry swearing her in with her husband, Edwin Scholssberg holding the bible. Her son Jack has a strong resemblance to his uncle, John (Caroline’s brother).
Large Tent
My Jewish Tent is tall and wide.  I believe in a very progressive acceptance of “who is a Jew”.  If you have a Jewish heart and soul, you are a Jew and welcomed in my tent.  The only Jews not welcomed are Messianic Jews who believe that Jesus is the Messiah.  There is an organization that’s main focus is to convert Jews to believe in Jesus.  The Messianic Jewish Bible Institute proselytizes all over the world including Israel (we met some in Tel Aviv as Hannan tried to explain who they were to the innocent Israelis listening to them on Rothchild St.). This week they held their big fundraiser with keynote speaker, past president, George W. Bush.  He is getting flack from all over our Jewish Community about his acceptance to help raise funds on behalf of this organization:

Holiday Mash-up
Hanukah and Thanksgiving won’t converge again for another 80,000 years (give or take). Here’s a funny parody of the two holidays: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gG1pZstoQE8

and also the musical talents of some Technion students to get you in the holiday mood:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Lb_CbuhLi2Q&feature=youtu.be

Shabbat Greeter
Rabbi Jason Miller bravely asked Tina Fey to be this week’s Celeb Shabbat Shalom Greeter. Thanks, Jason: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4i8fHqA8orU&feature=youtu.be

New Community Member
I love dogs but not one of my own to take care of, but am thrilled to welcome Malcolm Alpern Fleischman as his fulfill the responsibility of comfort, joy, furriness and smiles at our Jewish Senior Living facilities. Lazar the dog is watching with great care from heaven.

Wishing you and your loved ones a Sweet and Peaceful Shabbat Shalom,

Lisa
Bonus video: Please enjoy our dear friend, David Broza’s, newest release of “Peace, Love and Understanding” accompanied by a multi-cultural Youth Choir in Jerusalem.

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Condolences to dear friend, Shimon Weitzman, on the passing of his beloved brother, Itzik at age 69 in Israel.  May his memory and spirit bring comfort to Shimon and his family.
Condolences to Marcy and Michael Feldman and their family on the passing of Marcy’s sister, Joan Provizer and aunt to Betsy Heuer.  May her memory and spirit bring comfort to her loved ones during their time of sorrow.
Please join us in support of Gary Peters efforts to become our next US Senator at a fundraiser Sunday Dec. 15th at 2:00pm at the home of Roz and Stanford Blanck (Franklin).  For more info: call 248-631-4929 or email Event@PetersForMichigan.com
Please help support Orchards Children’s Services on Thursday Nov. 21st (noon-7pm) by shopping at My House of Style (574 N. Old Woodward, Birm.) when 15% of the day’s sales will be donated to this wonderful organization which serves over 5,000 children each year through adoption, family preservation, foster care, after school programs, mentoring and summer camp opportunities.
Dental care can affect your whole body’s health.  Many in our community have no access to a Dentist but Dr. Mickey Zuroff is doing his part to help those in need.  And you can do your part in helping Mickey by supporting his fundraiser this Sunday at the Monte Carlo night at Shaarey Zedek.  For more info or to support theJewish Dental Clinic, please click here:
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Happy Birthday to next week’s celebrants (and 1 from last week):
 
Nov. 12th
Max Spiegelman (Florida Nephew)
Nov. 15th
Larry Wolfe
Peter Alter
Nov. 16th
David Zuckerman
Nov. 17th
Debbie Siegel

Nov. 18th
Noah Tepperman

Nov. 19th
Phil Norville
Renee Ruiz

Nov. 20th
Jolie Altman

Nov. 21st
Francee Ford
Lisa Katzman
Sari Cicurel

Please let me know if you would like your birthday mentioned by confirming with me that I have it on my calendar.

Shabbat Shalom November 15, 2013

Shabbat Shalom November 8, 2013

Shabbat Shalom November 8, 2013

Dear Friends and Family,

New Mother
We are blessed, overwhelmed and grateful to join the Grandparent Club as our first Grandchild was born Sunday Nov. 3rd at 6 lbs, 6 oz.  She will be given her Hebrew name this Sunday at a Simchat Bat (Joyous Daughter) ceremony created by our daughter, Ariella and son-in-law, Tzvi.  In the meantime, we call her “Fresca”, her in uterine nickname. Maybe the next baby will nicknamed Vernors or Faygo, in honor of their Detroit roots.

Dedicated Motherhood
Speaking of motherhood, I found these images to be incredible.  The mothering instinct is so strong and pervasive, that even in nature, a mother feels compelled to help presumably motherless creatures.  Check out all 3 photos and the captions of this new Mother http://imgur.com/a/T68eB

Disadvantaged Mothers
Sadly, mothers and women in developing counties don’t have the same luxuries as we do in most Western nations.  Like the luxury of medical care, access and education to birth control and the right to make decisions for ourselves.  Unfortunately, some States (like Mississippi and Texas, top 2 worst states* for women) are continually passing anti-women legislation and taking our rights away.  Women and girls in many developing countries are raped and abused with no rights at all to protect them. Hillary Clinton had a brilliant and respectful response to a congressman’s question of global women’s health. Though this response was several years ago, it still holds true and worth repeating.
http://www.upworthy.com/dont-ask-hillary-clinton-about-abortion-if-you-cant-handle-her-answer

Mothers in High Gear
Recently, several Saudi women took to the road as their own drivers in a county where apparently driving is harmful to your ovaries so it is an illegal activity for women.  This, of course, sound ridiculous to us but it also prompted a brilliant parody by a Saudi musician. Enjoy: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aZMbTFNp4wI

Mother’s Reality
Most people are overly critical of themselves and mothers are no exception. But what if you could hear what your children really think of you.  Take a peek for a reality check but be prepared for some tear-ductaction.
http://www.upworthy.com/these-kids-finally-say-what-they-really-think-about-mom-and-her-reaction-priceless-9?g=2&c=ufb1

Mother’s Frustrations
As Thanksgiving approaches and our food consumption increases, many in our Michigan communities will experience the opposite effect as our State’s SNAP food assistance program will be decreased by $183 million over the next year.  That just sucks for so many parents currently struggling to feed their children. Did you know that the majority of the 1.8 million Michiganders who receive SNAP help are either children, seniors or people with disabilities.  Also, many are veterans. Cutting governmental cost like this does little to help the “bottom line” of the budget.  Its a drop in the bucket that has a tremendous impact on kitchen cupboards. Taking to our Senators can help, but another way is to save the date of April 26th when Hannan and I will be co-chairing this year’s Forgotten Harvest fundraiser event featuring Tim Allen.  I’ll send more details at a later date.

Mother’s Heros
Speaking of Veterans, Monday is our day to recognize and thank all US Veterans and current solders for their service to our country.  They sacrificed their lives to protect ours and are due respect and support.  NOT ONE should ever end up homeless or destitute, but unfortunately many do.

 

 


Israel’s Hero
Last monday was the anniversary of the death of an Israeli Veteran, Hero, Prime Minister and Nobel Peace Prize Winner.  On Nov. 4th, 1995 Yitzhak Rabin was gunned down specifically for his Peace initiatives. Let’s hope his killer only extinguished the messenger and the hope for Peace is still alive.

 Israel’s Protection
75 years ago this week, Kristallnacht (Night of Broken Glass) destroyed 1,000 synagogues and 7,000 Jewish owned business.  Anti-semitism still exist (thank God not to this extreme) but the BIG difference today is our protected Homeland that needs to remain strong and safe.  “How wonderful it is that nobody need wait a single moment before starting to improve the world.”  Anne Frank 

Wishing you and your loved ones a Sweet and Peaceful Shabbat Shalom,

Lisa

* Top 10 worst State for Women:http://www.alternet.org/story/150878/10_worst_states_to_be_a_woman

Happy 70th birthday to Beautiful Canadian Trobairitz (Female Troubadour), Joni Mitchell.  Here is a vintage (1967) recording of “Both Sides Now” and the “Circle Game”
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pTVjCWekS1Q&list=RD02FE5PKLBettc

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Condolences
As we became Grandparents this week, another family lost their beloved Grandfather, Bud Gerson.  Our thoughts and prayers go out to Ralph and Erica Gerson and their family on the passing of their father who was another patriarch of our community with his passion and commitment evident by his Lifetime Achievement Award bestowed to him and his wife Dorothy.  May his spirit and memory bring comfort to those who mourn his loss.

Election Elation
Kudos to Royal Oak on securing LGBT Rights for its residents
Hi Five to Jackson, Lansing and Ferndale for decriminalizing Marijuana
Mazel Tov to (the next) Detroit Mayor Mike Duggan 

 Happy Birthday!!
A BIG Mazel Tov goes to Lois Shevsky on her 75th birthday celebration on Oct. 29th.

This week’s celebrants:

Nov. 8th
Dan Kohn

Nov. 9th
Amy Morganstern
Patti Phillips
Richard Bernstein

Nov. 10th
Carolyn Tisdale
Robb Lippitt

Nov. 11th
Shari Kaufman

Nov. 12th
David Contorer
Sylvia Wolfe (special 50th)
David Liss (Big 70th)

Nov. 13th
David Mark (Big Brother celebrating a BIG Birthday)

Nov. 14th
Prince Charles
Condeleezza Rice

Shabbat Shalom November 8, 2013

Shabbat Shalom November 1, 2013

Shabbat Shalom November 1, 2013

Dear Friends and Family,

4th Year
This week marks the 4th anniversary of these Shabbat messages.  My original intent was to just wish friends and family a weekly Shabbat Shalom and these days they have morphed into… well, what you see.  Evolution is in the future, as I plan to keep these messages innovative, current and interesting.  I truly enjoy writing them and plan to continue sending them each Friday morning till my fingers can no longer type or my brain can no longer compose.

1st Year of Wedded Bliss
Wishing our wonderful niece, Ilana Mark, wedded bliss (this weekend and many years to come) to the Love of her Life, Jason Fisher as they stomp on the Glass to join their love in marriage.  We look forward to the Michigan celebration since we couldn’t attend the destination wedding as we are anticipating our first Grand-baby any day.

7th Year Stretch
Mazel Tov to the Red Sox, the Green Monster, Quincy Market, Beacon Hill, Coolidge Corner, Newbury Street, No Name Resturant, Harvard Square, JP Licks and all of my old favorite Boston stomping grounds on winning their 7th World Series.

30th Year of Vacant Seats
30 years ago this week 1, 800 US marines were in Beirut, Lebanon on a Peacekeeping Mission, when a truck bomb exploded outside their barracks, killing 241 souls.  The terrorist organization, Hezbollah committed this hideous crime with “moral” and financial support from Iran and Syria.  Not much has changed in 30 years. Though Syria has destroyed their chemical plants this week, Iran continues to enrich uranium to the full 20% just short of weapon’s grade.  Hezbollah is still supported by Iran and Syria and continues to reek havoc in the region as 241 families endure 30 years of vacant seats at their dinner tables where loved ones used to sit.

Mid Year Elections
This Tuesday Nov. 5th is election day (for us Americans).  There are many local candidates up for election and several proposal in each of our cities.

Here is a website for the Oakland County options:
http://www.oakgov.com/clerkrod/elections/Documents/2013_november_combined_list.pdf

Starting on page 8, you’ll find all of the proposals for Oakland County Cities.  For example, our City of Farmington Hills has 2 school bond proposal for Safety/Infrastructure and Art/Athletics.  But the BIG Michigan question is who will be the next Detroit Mayor.

Most likely, Mike Duggan will succeed as he is endorsed by… well, almost everyone.  No matter who wins, we’ll still have our emergency manager, our bankruptcy and some major financial huddles to overcome before our city returns to it’s glory… which it WILL.

The Year of Samsung
I have abandoned my iPhone after frustrating weeks with the new operating system and joined the Samsung family but now I need to let iPhone users know that in order for me (and others) to receive their texts they need to:  Go to Settings, choose Messages, and enable option 3 which is Send as SMS, otherwise some iPhone text messages will not reach their intended receiver.

Lou Reed
Sad Year for Rock & Roll
Lewis Allan Reed, beloved son of Toby and Sidney passed away this week at age 71. Though born Jewish, Lou Reed claimed his religion as Rock & Roll and Rock & Roll surely benefited from his talents.  Though his 60’s band the Velvet Underground failed at its onset, it grew in popularity over the years.  Here is his iconic tune (and peom) “A walk on the wild side” with some incredible NYC video images in this youtube:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WZ88oTITMoM 

468 Victims Each Year
Oct. 30th was National Domestic Violence Action Day and this day is unfortunately needed as 9 women each week are shot and killed by their partner.  At times it seems like our country is moving in a more enlightened direction with Marriage Equality and Marijuana acceptance, YET when it come to Women’s Rights & Protections and Gun Control, it seems we are stuck in the mud or even moving in reverse.

Wishing you and your loved ones a Sweet and Peaceful Shabbat Shalom,

Lisa

Banksy NYC images

 

 

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Please attend the Nov. 5th screening of The Prime Ministers at The Maple Theater(4235 West Maple Rd) for a Simon Wiesenthal Center fundraiser. The 115-minute docudrama, directed by Academy Award winner Richard Trank, features voiceovers by major Hollywood actors Sandra Bullock (Meir), Michael Douglas (Rabin), Leonard Nimoy (Eshkol) and Christoph Waltz (Begin).
www.wiesenthal.com/michiganpremiere

Please help support The Jewish Dental Clinic by attending the Monte Carol Night on Sunday Nov. 17th at Shaarey Zedek.  248-497-6224 or www.jdcmontecarlonight.org

Please join American Jewish Committee (AJC) at their Advocacy in Action Dinner on Wednesday Dec. 4th at the Birmingham Townsend Hotel with Journalist and Author Jeffery Goldberg.  248-646-7686 or www.ajc.org/detgoldberg

Technology is usually wonderful until it fails you.   My calendar program failed me last week which cause me to miss the birthday of dear friend to many (including me).  Happy Belated Birthday Ronnie Elkus on Oct. 26th.  You are the best!

 Happy birthday to this week’s celebrants:

Nov. 1st
Kinky Friedman

Nov. 2nd
Karen Sosnick Schoenberg
Ronnie Ferber
Helen Curhan

Nov. 3rd
Wendy Eichenhorn Stone

Nov. 4th
Abbey Brasch Nathan
Ellen Bryne
Tomer Zur

Nov. 5th
Debra Feldman Singer
Heidi Blas Barzily
Michael Horowitz
Sheldon Cohn
Susanna Pollak Mould
Michelle Winterberg

Nov. 6th
Carol Ann Feder Levis
Robin Kaufman Trepeck
Kari Grosinger Alterman
Bob Henrich
Bruce Gorosh

Nov. 7th
Brad Schlafer
Linda Hayman
Kim Levitt Chesbrough
Tracey Grosinger
Susie Citrin

I am prone to mistakes and don’t mind being corrected on my spelling or errors, so please feel free to call me out on my human condition of imperfection.

Shabbat Shalom November 1, 2013